Narcissism 101

10 Signs A Narcissist Is Discarding You

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Number 8: The Narcissist will rarely communicate with you.

If you feel like the narcissist in your life rarely communicates with you, it’s because they don’t want to. It may also mean they are starting to discard you from their lives. Narcissists are more concerned with their needs and wants than anyone else.

So, if you’re not a priority for them, they won’t be spending time talking to you about your feelings or concerns. They will start to avoid you, then they will stop responding to your messages, and then they will ignore your calls. If they communicate with you, they will do so in a cold, detached way.

Number 9: The Narcissist will never care about your life.

This can be one of the obvious signs that you are being discarded by a narcissist; they are all about themselves. If you try to tell them about something that happened to you or something that’s going on in your life, they won’t listen.

Narcissists will just talk over you or change the subject, and they might probably complain about having to listen to you in the first place. If someone truly cares about you, they’ll be interested in what’s going on in your life. They’ll ask questions about how things are going for you and help out when they can.

Number 10: The Narcissist won’t respect your boundaries or personal space.

If the narcissist does not respect your boundaries, it’s an early sign that they will eventually discard you. There’s a good chance they’ve pushed your limits and barged into your personal space while being around them. This can be subtle, like the narcissist asking questions about your life or feelings when you don’t want to talk.

It can be more overt, like the narcissist moving in on your physical space, or trying to make decisions for you without consulting you first. Narcissists have a difficult time respecting the boundaries of others, so it’s no surprise that they don’t respect their victims’ personal space either.

Remember that you are not obligated to do anything for the narcissist and are allowed to say no. You have the right to your boundaries and personal space. Suppose you find yourself in a relationship with a narcissist. In that case, you will likely be discarded as soon as it no longer serves the narcissist.

They can’t maintain stable relationships, and discarding you is one of the easiest things they always do. Your only recourse is to strongly defend yourself by refusing to accept the discard and any subsequent abuse on your part and working diligently to ensure your emotional recovery.

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