Number 3: They complain a lot.
They are never okay with things going on around them; everything seems difficult when one is around a narcissist. Being in a relationship with anyone who is negative and is always ready to criticize can be a lot of headaches to deal with, and is very exhausting.
There will be a time when your heart tells you that you’re doing great, but the noise you’ll hear from your partner will always be more frustrating isn’t it? This kind of one-sided relationship has sadly no growth and no happy endings. They always want you to do more so they end up looking good when they’re around you since narcissists like to surround themselves with special people that will elevate their value.
Number 2: They have some serious convincing abilities.
When it comes to convincing people or anyone, they are very good at it. These people try to question their personality disorders, but they will try their best to convince others that they are absolutely fine and the problem is from the other side, funny isn’t it? Even if you see all the signs of narcissism in them, they’ll still make you believe that you are wrong and they are perfectly fine.
They even can make you believe that other people need help not them, which is a pretty hopeless case to be in. The problem here is narcissists don’t see anything wrong with themselves, so telling them they need help is a waste of your time. Because they see themselves as the superior ones and everyone else as lower-class people.
Number 1: They break rules because the rules don’t apply to them.
They may be the first to set rules and boundaries in a relationship, and then be the first ones to violate them because simply those rules don’t apply to them because they think they’re exceptional. They may even enjoy getting away with breaking the rules with no guilt at all.
Breaking promises while reminding others how important those promises are is hurtful yet completely normal in the eyes of a narcissist. They will always indulge themselves in every other hypocritical activity and get angry when you do the same as them.
They usually expect people to cater to their needs, and they will always remind you not to cross the boundaries of the relationship, but not follow through themselves. So, there you have it? If these qualities are there then you should pack your bags and move out my friend.
There is no future living with a narcissist because they do not truly care about you. The only thing a narcissist cares about is enhancing their image and staying with you as long as you help them achieve that goal.
Read More: 7 Reasons Why You Should Never Trust a Narcissist
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