5: “I am not Accountable.”
Narcissists do take accountability for their negative actions or shortcomings. They will blame whoever they can but it will never be their fault. They will not own up to their bad actions and they are very unlikely to apologize for any wrongdoing as they will not admit fault. And even if they do apologize it will not be genuine.
Narcissists refuse to accept that they are the ones in the wrong. So, if you are in a relationship with a Narcissist is it a parent, child, partner, friend, or work colleague don’t ever expect them to genuinely take ownership when they are the ones who have screwed up.
6: “I manipulate and exploit others.”
Narcissists are users. They would take whatever they can from you. They will suck you dry and then toss you aside. Whenever a Narcissist is interested in you it is because you have something they want. They do not care about you as a person only what you can do for them or give to them. Everything is off-balance in a Narcissistic relationship and the most important thing is that the Narcissist has the advantage. They have to be the ones benefiting the most.
7: “I have fragile Self-Esteem.”
Yes, despite their grandiosity they have a low sense of self-worth and are therefore quite petty and insecure. They hate correction and become super defensive when criticized. They hate having their faults pointed out or for anyone to disagree with them. Because if you disagree with them, it means there is a flaw in their argument or opinion. The Narcissist cannot handle that.
They want everything they say to just be accepted without any opposition. Their fragile ego cannot handle correction. So, if you dare to criticize anything they have said or done they will take it personally. They will not view it as constructive but rather as an attack and they will defend.
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