Number 2: Money.
Narcissists value money most because they are always in need of more of it. They value money because it gives them power over others, and makes them feel important. It’s what they use to buy whatever they need to get what they want from others.
Money is also a way to show off their success in life. Money is off often the primary way narcissists try to control people because they have a deep-seated fear of being unable to provide for themselves or their loved ones. They may be driven to make money, or simply expect it from others. Suppose you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. In that case, you need to understand that they see money as a sign of success and power.
Number 3: Image and appearance.
Regarding what narcissists value most in their supply image and appearance are at the top of the list. They love to show off their supply, whether a new partner or a family member. For example, suppose a narcissist is trying to prove that they have a fantastic relationship with their children. In that case, they will often post pictures on social media, showing them having fun together and being happy.
Narcissists want their suppliers to be a reflection of their idealized self; they will try to portray them as the ideal partner who can satisfy the narcissist’s need for admiration and attention. This means that narcissists will try to make you look your best, from how you dress to how well you maintain yourself.
They want you to appear as beautiful and perfect as possible because it improves their self-esteem, and makes them feel more secure in the relationship. They will be critical of any flaws in your appearance, especially if they are visible to others.
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