Number 4: Success.
Narcissists want to see themselves as successful and those around them as successful. Success is important to narcissists in the most superficial way possible. It allows them to demonstrate their superiority over others. They enjoy being around people who were respected or admired by others.
For narcissists to believe they are successful, their supply must also be successful. Suppose you’re not achieving your goals in doing well in life. In that case, a narcissist may feel insecure and inadequate, which makes them uncomfortable. Narcissists frequently attempt to undermine the success of their supply to keep them from becoming too self-sufficient.
Number 5: Status.
Narcissists are selective about who they use as their supply, should be physically attractive, intelligent, and has a decent job that pays well. They want someone to help them boost their self-esteem and make them feel special. Status is important to narcissists, but not just any kind of status. They require people who can boost their ego, by recognizing their accomplishments or beauty.
Narcissists admire people with high status because they want to emulate or use them to achieve their goals. Status is everything to them; meaning they will be impressed and want to keep you around if you can demonstrate your power or authority.
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