Number 2: Narcissists will blame you for everything.
It’s common for a narcissist to turn around and blame you for the breakup even if they initiated it. This is because narcissists are masters of manipulation and blame-shifting. So, they’ll often use their own words against them to make you feel bad about yourself.
If this occurs, remind yourself that it is not your fault. Instead, it is theirs. On the other hand, if you were the one who ended things, they will tell everyone that it was your entire fault.
This is because narcissists are incapable of taking responsibility for anything negative that happens in their lives, so they’ll always make themselves out to be the victim.
Number 3: Narcissists will try to win you back.
If the narcissist has invested a lot of time and energy into getting close to you, they’ll want it back when they realize they’ve lost it. Don’t fall for this trap, they don’t change their behavior let them go gracefully and focus on building your life without them. A narcissist will attempt to manipulate you into staying with them again.
They will say anything and do anything to convince you to stay with them, even if it means lying or making up stories about how much better off you would be if you stayed together. The longer and more significant your relationship has been- the stronger its hold on you may become after the breakup. It is essential not to give in to these tactics because doing so will only lead to more pain and suffering.
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