Number 5: Employ their vulnerabilities as a source of strength.
To see the narcissist for what he or she really is, detach yourself emotionally and objectively and watch his or her predictable, repeating actions. If you can control your feelings long enough to study a narcissist objectively, you will be able to anticipate their reactions and triggers with uncanny accuracy.
You might even be able to condition some of their behavior if you can achieve what I just listed. And you need not actively seek out narcissism to be one though; you need to because you have to. Could you use anything as a weapon to stop them from torturing you? Take advantage of their insecurities, such as their need to present a perfect image to the world.
Find out what it is they want from you and figure out how to provide it to them, while still getting what you need. What I have in mind is a slow trickle of liquid. Get their cooperation by appealing to their base or motivations- and the need for instant gratification.
Everything is possible, but only with careful preparation. How likely it is that someone would label me a narcissist if I did this? Perhaps, but not necessarily, you’re only being friendly and don’t mean any harm. It’s only a safety measure to take in case the worst should happen.
To be clear, you aren’t actually hurting them. Realizing the truth put, another way, is the key to freedom. Strengthen your mental and emotional resolve. Don’t let them torture you; instead, play off of what they are good at and use it against them.
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