Number 5: They want to supply what you used to give them.
There was no one supply when they were gone. You didn’t hear from them; they were entertaining other people; they were all over social media. And then you get that text saying, “I miss you.” Well, you know what that means? It means whoever I was entertaining, I’m devaluing right now. They’re not giving me the level of supply they used to give me. I’m getting bored with them; I’m getting fed up with them. Maybe they spoke back to the narcissist.
They started that person that started to come out of the abuse, the fog of abuse, and the narcissist is low on supplies. And so it is very common for narcissists to recycle their supply. I believe it was “Beyond why we missed the narcissist when the narcissist doesn’t hoover,” but the narcissist has a supply chain; they have a shelf, a harem of supply that they go back to at different times for different needs and different things, and they put you on that shelf.
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They put you in that harem when they need a hit when they need a quick hit because they’re low on supplies. They will come back, and they will expect you to let them back and see it into your life, but when you let them back in, I’m here to tell you that they just do more damage. And I know how feels to miss the narcissist, and when you get that text, you want to respond; you want to believe that they’ve changed, but they haven’t, and it could be very dangerous.
When you’ve made it out of the bridge and you’ve made it out as a grasp of the narcissist and you’ve broken loose from their abuse, keep going, don’t look back, don’t go back, and I know it’s hard, I’m not here telling you that it’s easy, but really it can be dangerous because narcissism was angry at you. They’re angry that you broke free of them and the abuse to begin with. They’re angry that you broke free of the control. And when they get you back, it is only to make you pay.
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