And let me tell you this: that time never came in my life when I recognized, “Oh, my mother was right, and I made a big mistake. I now need her help. I need her to rescue me.” That never happened. She terrorized me intentionally because she wanted me to be a failure. When you stop being a failure, when you go against that grooming, that brainwashing, that programming you were subjected to, when you rewire your brain and take total control back of your life, of your choices, everything that happens in your life, and you become the center of it, you become a disappointment for them. They feel deceived, and they feel their expectations were not met. And they see you as a big betrayer.
Number 3: When you do not do their bidding when you do not enable their image as a partner or as a child of a narcissist, you are seen as an extension. You have only one role to play in their life, and that is to enable their narcissistic image the image they have projected to the world at large. But when you refrain from playing a part in maintaining that facade, when you call out that deception, and when you expose them, when you speak the truth to the people who matter the most to them, you become anti-narcissist. You become the black sheep, the scapegoat, who is then ostracized, who is then cast out as a rebel, who is then seen as the enemy of the narcissistic family system.
Because every person who kisses their behind, who sucks up to them, gets the premium supply back or temporarily is put on a pedestal. But when you remain true to yourself and recognize fake for fake, that is when you become the light bearer, the torch bearer, the cycle breaker. And they attack you in a group, like a group of wolves. They come after your life. They do not care about what you feel, or how it impacts you. Your brothers, your sisters, your partner, your parents they turn against you. They turn on you, and then they get a lot of people on their team by running a massive revenge campaign against you.
The reason being, “Oh, he or she just turned out to be a disobedient child. Oh, this partner of mine I can’t tell you how destructive they are by nature. Look what they did to me. Look what they did to my life.” That is what they run with, and that is what they spread around.
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