Number 3: S£xual shame and dysfunction
Three, they’ve got s£xual dysfunction and shame, but you will be blamed for it. That is a secret shrouded in silence since narcissists refuse to discuss this. They just keep it hidden, but your bedroom will find out about it. Most narcissistic men, at least, are intensely ashamed of their s£xual skills be they the size of their penis, their ability to get an erection, or simply their performance overall.
Instead of owning it, repairing it, or even talking about it, however, they deflect and accuse you. They will tell you, “You’re the problem. Oh, you’re too cold, too demanding, too nagging, too unattractive, too talkative.” They will tell you that you killed the mood because you wanted more intimacy or had the nerve to talk about something that was not about them.
They will not see that their erectile dysfunction, their premature ejaculation, and their inability to climax have nothing to do with you. Because if they confess to having trouble with intimacy, it would ruin their whole image. And narcissists love their image, don’t they? They’d rather embarrass you than be embarrassed themselves. So they sabotage your self-esteem and have you wondering if you’re desirable, lovable enough.
You were manipulated into surgeries, diets, crazy fantasies, and fetishes you never wanted, just to attempt to regain the spark. But the problem was not you. The problem was their disconnection, their shame, their vulnerable ego that could not tolerate the truth. But rather than healing, what do they do? They project, and you believe it.
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