Number 2: They will rarely ask about you; everything is about them.
They may begin this conversation with a general “Hi, hello, how are you?” but then they’ll slowly, slowly bring it to themselves, and then this conversation will turn into a boring monologue about their life. They want all the attention. If it is an overt narcissist, then they’ll be talking about all their accomplishments and all the stories where they are the hero, and they are the savior, and all sorts of crap.
If it is a vulnerable narcissist, guess what? You get to hear all sorts of nonsense and stories about their victimhood, how they were attacked, how this happened, and how their life is a mess, and then you are forced to fix it.
Number 3: They will intentionally text you.
This is what makes them so evil. They will intentionally text you, I mean to bombard you, spam you continuously when you are busy, when you are doing your work, when you are in an important meeting. Maybe you’re preparing for an examination, or maybe something else is going on. Maybe you’re a doctor, and you are attending one of your patients.
No, they need that attention. What is so important that you are choosing that over the narcissist? How dare you ignore them? How dare you put them down? You have to choose them or everybody, including yourself, your money, and your stability.
The crazy thing is they will create a fake emergency so that they get you. They make you respond to those calls or texts. They will text and say something as cryptic as, “So and so had to be taken to the hospital, it’s an emergency, I need you.” But I see you’re not available, so it’s fine, and then leave it there until they know you have seen it. But then delete it so that you rush. You want to know more. You are going crazy. You are anxious.
Who wouldn’t be? This is how they weaponize your empathy against you. Not nothing might have happened, but the narcissist has to make it seem like the sky is falling, and the world is collapsing. They need to be rescued. They need immediate help. And if you are not there, which of course they shape the environment in such a way to make you fail so that they can then guilt trip you and punish you for a mistake you never made.
When you get to know that it was fake, your blood boils. You’re angry. And then they also weaponize that to say, “See, I just wanted some attention from you. I just wanted you to love me. I wanted to talk to you. That’s why I lied. I was doing it for us.” And this is what I get from you, anger. You’re abusing me. This is why you are crazy. I can’t stand this. They will then guilt trip you into fixing them, making them feel better. But at the same time, the unfortunate thing is you end up betraying yourself unconsciously.
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