Everybody believes narcissists just have one grand collapse, one grand fall. But that’s not true. The truth is, the false self they’ve built for themselves is just so flimsy that it gets damaged every day. It just requires the most unexpected, muted things to bring it crashing down. These aren’t the cliché triggers that I’m talking about the triggers that you learn about from YouTube videos and Instagram posts. These insidious triggers and boring things that break a narcissist’s heart are insidious landmines: unobtrusive, subtle, but deadly to a narcissist’s inner world, which we’re talking about today. These triggers were discovered by a narcissist in an accidental session. So, you may want to stay until the end to read what these are.
Today’s topic is seven everyday things that break a narcissist’s heart. Before you can say to me, “They don’t have a heart! What are you even talking about?” their heart is their false self or their ego. We’re going to be discussing the numerous drops they take daily but very much in private.
Number 1: when intuitive children pierce through them and are not affected by the sight.
Children should be easily enchanted, shouldn’t they? Manipulated? You stick out your tongue, hold up a toy, and they glow. At least that is the narcissist’s expectation until he encounters a child who neither smiles, laughs, nor even weeps but looks. The moment this occurs, the narcissist begins to shake. They become uneasy, even frightened, because they have no notion of what is happening. They cannot possibly fathom why this child’s being is so destabilizing, but they are quite agitated.
Because the child regards them in a specific way. It is as though God is watching them. That’s what that narcissist said to me: “I felt I was being seen through.” Children, especially intuitive or trauma-sensitive children, possess raw perception. They don’t respond to status or charm. They pick up energy. When they pick up that something is off, they can’t tell you how. They just do it. It’s all energy. And for the narcissist, the unspoken rejection by a child who does not even know the word rejection creates a huge tear deep within them. It authorizes the terrifying suspicion that they try so hard to conceal: “I’m unlovable.
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