Unlovable, even, to a child.” Can you imagine such? When the narcissist is near a child like that, the child becomes angry, has a tantrum, doesn’t want to approach, doesn’t want to speak, and exhibits some kind of fear, some kind of hesitation which, to a narcissist, is huge. They attempt to rationalize it: “Oh, it’s just a child being a child.” But in fact, they do know what is happening. These types of children are sensitive to the environment and people around them, probably traumatized in their homes. Maybe they come from a house full of narcissists.
I was once the type of kid who would instinctively and innocently read people’s body language to determine the other person’s intentions in those days. Nobody taught me. You just learn how to do it because you live with a narcissist because living with a narcissistic parent is akin to walking over hot coals. It is a minefield, and you must be constantly aware of where your feet are. That makes you hyper-perceptive and confers upon you the superpower of being able to recognize predators.
When a narcissist is rejected by a child who can feel with their satanic energy, they feel abandoned. And what does the abandonment lead to? Plenty of shame. Then, if the narcissist can somehow capture this child, what do they do? They physically abuse them and emotionally torture them. Because they don’t like to be rejected at all. They don’t like to be ignored.
This is the kind of child who can disregard the manipulations of a narcissist because, on some level, he or she recognizes that there is no point in playing games with this beast. So, they stay away at all costs, which is what initiates the pursuit. And that narcissist will then attempt to discover how to reach them and exact their revenge.
Number 2: when non-flattering individuals become successful.
We are programmed to believe that narcissists hate criticism. And they do. But what they dislike more than criticism is indifference. I have said it in so many videos: a narcissist’s vulnerability is indifference and unpredictability. They hate indifference coming from well-performing individuals. The narcissist that I interviewed during a session informed me, “There is this fellow at work.
He doesn’t ever utter a nice remark to me, doesn’t ever even look my way, and everybody still has a liking for him. Why is that?” You could hear the venom in his tone. This fellow hadn’t done anything wrong. He hadn’t complimented the narcissist, hadn’t offended him, or discredited him. He’d just ostracized him because he didn’t require him.
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That alone disrupted the narcissist’s internal hierarchy because their entire sense of self relies on the lie that others’ successes are a function of or response to them. You see, when you perform better on your own without seeking the ego-stroking of the narcissist, the narcissist feels irrelevant, outdated, useless, and worse than hate, to them.
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