Number 7: “I’m going to change.”
Narcissists may make promises to be kinder and fulfill your desires, but it becomes apparent that these pledges are empty when examined closely. Typically, these promises surface only when they require something from you, often during the manipulative tactic known as hovering. They return, making grandiose commitments of improvement, counseling, or behavioral changes. However, if you have experienced this cycle before, you know how frustratingly false these assurances proved to be.
Number 8: “You can rely on me and/or I’ve got your back.”
Even if a highly narcissistic individual momentarily utters these words, their primary focus remains on themselves. They will only protect themselves. While they may engage in kind gestures for you or others, it is often driven by self-interest or personal gain.
When the situation demands it, they may create an illusion of mutual support, leading you to believe they have your back while simultaneously expecting you to reciprocate. However, many of us discover, often at the most crucial moments, that this person is not genuinely there for us. They swiftly shift their stance, transforming from a close ally to someone actively working against us, spreading rumors, and seeking to cause harm.
It is common to experience feelings of foolishness for trusting them, but it is vital to remember that if you find yourself in this predicament, it is not your fault. This pattern is part of the carefully constructed web of lies that narcissists employ to manipulate and gain your trust.
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