Do you know the real reason why narcissists feel so justified in being vengeful, punitive, and angry towards you? Because they feel robbed. They feel duped and mobbed by you, even though that is not the truth. But they feel you have disappointed them in the most unimaginable ways possible. How so? How can they think this way? Let’s find out.
The topic for today’s article is Five Ways a Narcissist Feels You Have Duped Them. I’m going to share a lot of personal experiences, so stay until the very end because you are going to understand how a narcissist thinks, and views the relationship, and why it is purely transactional.
Number 1: The narcissist sees you as a failed investment.
What does that mean? It means every penny the narcissist spent on you was spent to get back the returns more interest, 10x-ing their investment. You see, they do not spend on their children, their spouses, or anyone close to them open-heartedly. They don’t do it because they’re supposed to do it. That’s what you do with the money you make your life and others’ lives easier. They spend it because they have a plan for you.
Let’s say they love-bombed you, bought you lavish stuff, gifted you, and spent money on dates and stuff. Their idea of return was that once you are in the relationship, they are going to financially abuse you. They’re going to take every penny back. The more money you work so hard for, the more selfish your interest you. But when you say no, when you set boundaries when a time comes in the relationship and you say, “I’m not going to let you financially abuse me, use me, and treat me like trash,” that is when you turn into a big disappointment like I did for my narcissistic father.
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