Biological abuse isn’t a term you hear often in the realm of narcissistic abuse. It is happening, though quietly, cunningly, and in ways that leave you devastated on every level. Because when a narcissist cannot destroy you emotionally, they attempt to break you biologically. In today’s topic, we will discuss five ways a narcissist biologically abuses you, and no one talks about it.
Number 1: They infect you and then blame you.
Let’s start with the obvious s*ex*ually transmitted infections. A narcissist will sleep around recklessly, hiding their s*ex*ual history, lying about fidelity, and gaslighting you for even asking. That’s crazy! They won’t get tested. They will insist you are the paranoid one. They’ll say, “Oh, you’re crazy or insecure.” And then they might give you the silent treatment. They might withhold affection. Why? Because you are questioning them, how dare you? They will call you all sorts of names if you suggest using protection. Then, one day, you get sick. What happens next? You test positive.
That is when the nightmare begins. Not just the physical damage that’s a part of it, it is the gaslighting, the blame-shifting that follows. “You probably got it from the gym, from that guy you call your friend,” or worse, they’ll say, “Oh, you have been cheating on me. I know it’s you,” projecting their betrayal onto you. This isn’t just emotional abuse; it is biological warfare because now your health is compromised. You’re dealing with chronic pain, shame, expensive treatments, or, in the worst-case scenario, lifelong infections. Some narcissists even remove condoms during s**ex without your consent, a tactic known as stealthing, which is legally recognized as s**e**xual assault in many countries.
And if you confront them about this, they laugh, they downplay it, and then they deny that what they have done is a violation, a crime. And it is the ultimate invasion of your body. The most painful part is your body carries the mark, the imprint of their abuse, even after they’re long gone, in the form of that STD, which is chronic, which is incurable. And that’s what leaves you with so much grievance, so much resentment and anger, because even after doing the right thing, which is letting go and going no-contact, you are still not able to biologically get rid of them.
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