If I were to teach you how to make a narcissist chase you, the first thing I would talk about is this: ignore them, don’t care, and watch them unravel. Because they are cursed with what I call reverse love syndrome. The more you pull away, the more you disappear, the more you see him emotionally unavailable, the harder they come running. You see, narcissists do not fall in love with people. They fall in love with the pursuit. They are addicted to the game.
The moment you become consistent, loyal, emotionally invested, and available, they lose interest. You stop being exciting to them. You stop being valuable because, in their mind, they already own you. They’re twisted up here. If you were to step into their world, you would feel you are in some alien, unrecognizable territory because they thrive in deprivation. The moment things start to feel mutual, warm, and stable, they panic.
That means there is nothing left to conquer, and they are not built to nurture anything. They are built to dominate. For them to stay, you would have to become an incomplete mission, a mystery, a half-open door they can never fully walk through, something that always keeps them guessing.
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