Number five: The impact of laughter and smiles.
And the last one is when you laugh and smile. This is very simple, but it is the one that stings the narcissist the most. It’s your laughter, your smile, that kills them, especially when it’s not because of them. When you laugh, when you smile, it shows you’re happy. You’re free. You are experiencing life beyond their influence. And that, my dear survivor, burns them. Because narcissists want to be the source of your emotions, good or bad. If you are happy, they want it to be because of them. If you are sad, they want to be the reason behind your tears. And it doesn’t stop there.
They’re miserable human beings, feeling so small and broken inside all the time. They may project an opposite image of what I am describing, but in reality, they are unhappy. They know they cannot achieve anything good in their life. They can never feel satisfied, and there is always going to be something wrong with the people they are with. Something is going to be missing, and they will feel pathetic no matter how much they are blessed and given by the universe. That lack of self-love and contentment is what leads to self-loathing, which is what they want to be reflected in their environment.
This means that if they are miserable within, they have to have you reflecting the same emotional state to keep the resonance maintained. They want you to be miserable as well because if you are not miserable, it reminds them of their true emotional state, which is what they want to run away from. And that is why your laughter is a reason for their unhappiness, which does not make any sense, but now you know.
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