What compels me to say so? Their nature. Can you stop a predator from hunting? It’s sprayed down. That is the predator’s nature. That is what it was created to do. Of course, for a narcissist, it is a choice, but a choice that is driven by their sensations. There isn’t a moral compass like you and I have. “Oh, I feel like doing it, but I cannot. I should not because it is a violation. It is the wrong thing to do. I feel attracted towards this person. I feel the urge to talk to them, and send a message, but I cannot do that because I am married. My life is tied to somebody else’s life, and I have children with them.
I have a family. So, no. My remorse, my moral values your moral values will stop you in the way, won’t they?” But a narcissist has none of that. They are, as I said, driven by what they feel they need in the moment. They are purely driven by their disregulated emotions. If they can anticipate experiencing thrill by doing a certain thing, which may be unacceptable, they will do it. They won’t ask, “Should I do it? Is it wrong? Is it right?” No, they will ask, “Is somebody watching? Can I get caught? Fine, go and do it.”
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A Personal Tragedy: Proof of Malice
Let’s come back to the proof that I have for you. My father, who was seen as the most shy, reserved, and timid person in our entire family, turned out to be the most shameless person that I know of. He did something so unacceptable and horrible that I could not ever look at him in the same way when I got to know about it. What is it that I’m talking about? Well, he tried to commit a sexual offense against one of my aunts. He tried to rape one of my aunts, who was home alone with him and saw him as a father figure.
I cannot give you the details of what went on or what transpired, but what I can tell you is that when we got to know about it, it left us paralyzed because that was the one thing we never expected him to do. We saw him as this tyrant, a monster, a psychopathic malignant narcissist who had no time for any of that stuff. But one day, he tried to take advantage of an opportunity when he was home alone with her. She felt safe around him because she thought he was not of that nature. On what basis did she think so? And my mother as well? He had never done anything that would make us think he is a sexual offender.
He hadn’t done anything to prove he was capable of committing such a heinous crime. He had never dropped any hints. Whenever he used to be in the presence of other people, he would lower his gaze and be all respectful towards women. But he proved us wrong. He failed us that day. He tried to force himself on her, and she had to scream. She had to jump out of a window to save her dignity, to save herself. And then, when my mother came back, she cried her heart out and shared the details of the event with her.
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