The aftermath and family dynamics
Now comes my narcissistic mother’s narcissism into the picture, and you will understand how dangerous narcissists are. She was impacted, but she made it about herself. She did not show any empathy towards the sister who was attacked and who had survived the assault. She created a big, dramatic, and chaotic scene without meaning anything. She said to my father that day, “What did he do?” In reaction, he wanted to contain her. He wanted her to shut up because he did not want us to know.
He did not want the neighbors to know. He denied taking responsibility for his action and tried to counter-gaslight us. However, my mother, as I said, was persistent but not forceful enough. She threatened him with divorce. “I’m going to leave you.” What ended up happening? She never left. And would you believe me? At the end of it, the blame was put on my aunt. Somehow, it was her fault, and nothing happened in the family. They just moved on with it.
My mother moved on with it. Possibly, she has a history too something that I do not know of, which is why it was normalized. Had I been her, I would have left him right in that moment. Divorce. That’s it for me. He died on that day the day I got to know about this whole situation. I saw my aunt crying and how nobody was supporting her.
I was flabbergasted. I was disgusted, and I still feel right now, as I’m talking about it, even though it has nothing to do with me. I’m sharing the details of this event just to prove to you: that these people are capable of doing anything they want to. What stops them from doing it is if they can get caught or not.
So, the narcissist you think did not cheat on you how do you know? Maybe the person got away with it. You don’t have to go looking for proof because we had no proof. He always kept his phone unlocked. It was available to us if we wanted to use it. We didn’t have to ask him for a passcode. It was always 1-2-3-4. That’s it.
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Nothing in his history no dating apps, no meetups, no secret talking, no taking his phone to the bathroom, no sleeping with his phone, no sleeping on the couch, not hiding his phone nothing. He did the opposite. He always left his phone unlocked, available, and didn’t care about it at all. He only cared about one thing, and that was hiding his financial details, which is what made me think, “Oh no, he can never do that. He hardly spends a dime on us.
We’re talking about taking somebody to dates, buying somebody flowers. He hardly talked nicely to us. He was always mean, cruel, and nasty. He always spewed venom,” which is what stopped us from considering the possibility of him wooing somebody and being nice and all sweet to her. It never crossed our mind.
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