Number 3: Heal.
First of all, you owe it to yourself to heal. Not healing from painful traumatic experiences will only really hurt you in the long run. Not getting over abuse healthily can cause you to become toxic yourself, mean, and bitter, and stay hurt forever. Heal and work on yourself because it helps you get over them. This can add a slap in the face if they somehow hear through the grapevine that you’re doing well.
Number 4: Nothing.
I’ll tell you why nothing else works. First of all, the narcissist doesn’t care. To be hurt by somebody, to be hurt by something that a person does to you, you have to care. Narcissists are people who can’t afford to care. Even if you could just let them have it and get one over on them, they don’t care. In their eyes, you still suck. They’re still over you and they’re still going to move on.
They have to move on. That’s the nature of the beast. They’re going to move forward. They need supply, new supply, and this is just what they’re going to do. Anything you could do to them, throw them out of the house, make them lose their job, take something away, expose them to other people, whatever you think you can do, somebody else is just going to come along behind you and undo it.
New supply is going to swoop in and get them that new job, let them move in, marry them, support them, whatever. What you do can be undone in a matter of minutes.
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