Number 10: Waiting for permission before eating.
Imagine having to ask someone if it’s okay to eat every single time. It’s not just about being polite; it’s a habit these kids develop from their need for approval. For them, waiting for permission before eating isn’t just a table manners thing; it’s about seeking validation. It’s like they need someone to say, “Yes, it’s okay for you to do this.”
It’s not about being overly polite; it’s about feeling insecure about their choices. This waiting-for-permission thing isn’t just about correcting their table manners; it’s about helping them build confidence in making their own decisions. It’s like teaching them that it’s okay to trust their own choices without always looking for someone else’s approval.
So, there you have it, a glimpse into the complex world of children abused by narcissistic parents. It’s crucial to recognize these behaviors, understand their roots, and offer the support these kids need to break free from the chains of their past. After all, every child deserves a chance to rewrite their story.
