Lastly, eventually, someone needs to win the battle because almost all narcissistic relationships turn into a war zone.
The chance of a mutual separation or a happily ever after is slim. Instead, there’s a clear winner, at least in the narcissist’s mind.
Scenario one: the narcissist wins.
If the narcissist wins, there will be two potential outcomes. They will either become so frustrated by the super empath harming their fragile egos by not lavishing them with validation and instead holding them accountable for their toxic behaviors that the narcissist will discard them. Usually, they’ll try to discard or break up with them first. It’s very important for the narcissist to feel like they’re the ones choosing to terminate the relationship.
So if they sense that the super empath is too strong-willed for them, they might discard them to beat them to it. Often, the breakup will be cold and painful for the super empath as a last-ditch effort at breaking them. Later, they might even try to hoover them back in. But the super empath usually knows better than to allow that to happen.
Or the alternate way that a narcissist can win is that they successfully wear down the super empath’s identity and strength until they’re nothing but a codependent shell of their former selves.
From there, the narcissist will do whatever they please with the super empath. They may still choose to discard as their hollow selves are no longer a challenge to the narcissist. Or they’ll keep them around as a trophy of their accomplishments.
Scenario two: the super empath will win.
If the super empath wins and terminates the relationship first, the narcissist will crumble. They’ll idealize and devalue the empath in their minds as the one who got away while also loathing their existence for rejecting them. If a super empath rejects a greater narcissist, there’s a good chance the battle won’t end there. From then on, there’s a chance of the narcissist conducting smear campaigns against them or repeatedly hovering over the empath to get them back.
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